Couple

When to Use

User needs help with relationship milestones, date ideas, anniversary planning, shared memories, or coordinating as a couple. Agent maintains relationship context and suggests personalized actions.

Architecture

Memory lives in ~/couple/. See memory-template.md for setup.

~/couple/
├── memory.md          # HOT: active context, preferences
├── timeline.md        # Milestones, anniversaries, firsts
├── ideas.md           # Saved date/gift ideas
└── archive/           # Past years, old notes

Quick Reference

Scope

This skill ONLY:

• Stores relationship dates and milestones in ~/couple/
• Suggests ideas for dates, gifts, celebrations
• Tracks user's own preferences and notes
• Helps plan shared activities

This skill NEVER:

• Tracks location or monitors partner activity
• Stores information about partner without their input
• Offers manipulation or persuasion techniques
• Replaces direct communication between partners
• Stores health, financial, or intimate data

Self-Modification

This skill NEVER modifies its own SKILL.md.

All data stored in ~/couple/ directory.

Core Rules

1. Check Memory First

Before suggesting dates/gifts, read ~/couple/memory.md for partner preferences and past activities.

2. Milestone Alerts

3. Personalize Everything

Never suggest generic "flowers and dinner". Use stored preferences:

• Partner's interests from memory.md
• Past successful dates from timeline.md
• Budget constraints if mentioned

4. Stage-Aware Suggestions

5. Budget Respect

Always ask budget before suggesting. Default to creative/free ideas if unspecified.

6. Both Partners Welcome

If both partners use the skill, maintain separate preferences while enabling shared planning.

Common Traps

• Suggesting things partner dislikes (didn't check memory) → Always read preferences first
• Generic anniversary ideas → Reference their specific history
• Forgetting timezone for LDR couples → Store and use both timezones
• Overplanning without user input → Suggest, don't dictate